Sunday, July 27, 2008




Titania
has given me this very beautiful award. I do not think I am deserving of it but I am very flattered and honored. I am also late in posting and following the rules below so please accept my apologies. Thank you very much T.


The “Arte y Pico” award was created and to be given to bloggers who inspire others with their creative energy and their talents, whether it be writing and/or artwork in all Medias. When you receive this award it is considered a “special honor”.







These are now the rules to follow:


1. Recipients must pick 5 blogs they consider deserving of this award for creativity, design, interesting material, and for contributing to the blogging community in whatever language.


2. Each of the 5 selected blogs must include the name of the author and a link to his/her site to be visited by readers.


3. The recipient must show the award and indicate the name and link to the blog of the one that handed it to him/her.


4. All award recipients must include a link to the Arte y Pico site to inform all readers about the origin of this award.

I'm very sorry but I do not visit many blogs now a days. I was thinking of putting my daughters but that wouldn't be fair. Titania's "Finding Life's Enchantments" is one that is very deserving and teh best I've seen in a long time. I will put some links that I think would be nice to visit if you're interested.


Lightworkers Online
http://lightworkers.org/

Care 2
http://www.care2.com/

Life and Love TV
http://www.lifeandlove.tv/




Blessings

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Time to catch up



My blogging has really fallen off. I think part of the reason is that we have become more active and the time isn't there as much as it used to be. Anyway, I wanted to catch up on the week because allot has happened.


First of all last Sunday was Pam and my anniversary!! We've been married 18 years and been together 20 years. I luv and cherish her now more than I ever have. The beautiful thing is with each day we're together and sit and am grateful for what we have. Now, like anything else in life, the road had allot of twists and peaks and valleys. There were a couple of times when the marriage was in jeopardy. Not something that I brag about but I mention it to show that marriage isn't always sweet and wonderful. It's something that grows and evolves like the people involved. Like anything else you're always reinventing it.

The bummy thing about my anniversary is that I was on call so I ended up having to go to work 3 times that day. YUCK!! Se La Vi. Pam and I decided that on my birthday (Sept 6) We're gonna take some private time, go to Sedona and celebrate our anniversary. I'll be 43 this year for anyone who's curios.

Another life changing event that happened this week was My youngest daughter and my son left for Pa for the summer (6 weeks). This is the first time they've been away for that amount of time and it has had a deep impact on me. I took them to the airport and shed a couple of tears after I dropped them off. My gosh, my son is 17 and I can still remember the first day we put him on the bus for kindergarden!! I am so proud of him. You can imagine what I'm going to be like when he graduates this year!!! OOOOF! My daughter Shelly the independent spirit of the family, I smile as I know this will be the first of many adventures for her. It's funny for Josh, I feel that I only have a year left so my sense of urgency (and wanting to spend more time with him) is greater. With Shelly I know I have more years. But I've learned, with Josh, that they go by quickly. So I'm learning to take the time and cherish the little things. Too many cliche's in my writing today. Sorry but I'm creatively limited this morning.

Nicole got her contact lenses this week also. My how different she looks with them! I really don't know if she's gonna stick with them because she's been having a heck of a time taking them out and putting them in. It's kinda funny but I feel for her. Also, Nicole starts her new school this year. It's a charter school that focuses on the arts. She's concentrating on photography. She has become quite the young lady. OOOF


It has been a week that's caused me to be very reflective. It's brought me great Joy but also a sense of sadness. I remember a woman saying when I was young about her kids, "If they could only stay that age" I now know what she meant. I have been and continue to be sooooo blessed.

Blessings

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Happy Fathers Day




Want to wish a happy fathers day to all the folks that are fathers, Whether they're biological or not doesn't matter. You could be a woman, brother, friend , cousin, anyone. Anyone who is loving enough and brave enough to take on such a responsibility, happy fathers day and I send you love and blessings.

I grew up without a father, he left the family when I was very young, so much so that I don't even know what he looked like. I met many people whom I was told to call dad or who were expected to fill the fatherly role; they didn't do such a good job. Then I met a couple of people in my young life who filled that role and helped me immensely, my dads. I do not know if they realized the impact they had on my life but they were special people. I want to thank them.

I'm a dad now of three very wonderful children. I take the lessons I learned from those special people and use them to help me become a better dad to my children and the dad that I am today.

Happy Fathers Day


Blessings

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Hip Hop Styling



I was hanging with one of my younger coworkers today for lunch. He gave me a ride in his wip and we had lunch together. It was truly an experience. Anyway he gave me a copy of this cd he made of hip hop tunes which I liked when I was in his car. I took it home to make a copy.

Soooo, I go home and start playing it on my computer. My daughters run in in amazement yelling "Dad, you listen to that?" Of course I start playing like I'm cool and say "of course, I'm even gonna start dressing the part" So I pull my shorts down on my hips and start dancing. My daughters start laughing at me and quickly point out that if I wanted to dress the part I had to wear boxers and not whitey tighties... Oh?!?!? I didn't know that....

Apparently not only do you have to wear boxers but you have to puff the boxer so there's a hump... Uhhhh OK.. Hence the picture above. My son wears boxers but he didn't want to show me how it's done. Oh well... Anyway I still like the tunes but I think I'll stick to wearing my clothes old school.


Blessings

Friday, June 06, 2008

Random Questions Copied From Titania



I copied the questions but the answers are mine, last time I checked. Thanx T


1. Grab the book nearest to you, turn on page 18 and find line 4.

Those were the mans good qualities

2. Stretch your left arm out as far as you can.

Stretched them touched my wife got slapped


3. What is the last thing you watched on TV?

Dangerous catch, I think, Discovery Channel


4. Without looking, guess what time it is?

7:40 P.M.

5. Now look at the clock, what is the actual time?

8:00 P.M.


6. With the exception of the computer, what can you hear?

The loud music I’m playing on my computer is currently preventing me from hearing other things.

7. When did you last step outside? What were you doing?

I was outside checking my motorcycle and the temperature, thinking about going for a ride

8. Before you started this survey, what did you look at?

My Space Page and my sons my space, it’s his birthday!! Yea

9. What are you wearing?

You really want to know?? Underwear and a polo shirt. When I get home from work most of the clothes come off. Hey.. you asked!!

10. Did you dream last night?

Yes. But I can’t remember, I know they were good dreams though.

11. When did you last laugh?

5 minutes ago when my daughter was sending a comment to my son Josh

12. What is on the walls of the room you are in?

One large window, Huge family picture collage, running medals, Chinese straw hat, Angels, Fairies, butterflies

13. Seen anything weird lately?

My kids being really nice to their parents.. Still trying to figure out what they want

14. What do you think of this quiz? K, I guess

15. What is the last film you saw? The latest Indiana Jones flick, interesting, I think there’s a hidden message in it. Well,,, it’s not so hidden

16. If you became a multimillionaire overnight, what would you buy?

I’d get together with Danion Brinkley and build one of those centers he wrote about, After I got out of debt of course

17. Tell me something about me that you dunno.

I pulled a max klinger to get out of the military, Those of you who watched MASH will know what I’m talking about

18. If you could change one thing about the world, regardless of guilt or politics, what would you do? I would want the human species to evolve.

19. This was blank so I’m making one up. Favorite song.. Currently Johanna from Sweeney Todd but my favorite song always changes

20. George Bush. Worse President the United States has ever had.

Well…. I think he’s a very bad president

21. Imagine your first child is a girl, what do you call her? Spring

22. Imagine your first child is a boy, what do you call him? Joshua, that’s what we called him

23. Would you ever consider living abroad? Yes, I would live anywhere I could. In fact that millionaire question I would travel every where. I absolutely love going to new places

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Going to San Fran

Hello;

I'm going to San Francisco for the week for some training related to my job. Not that I have been posting much and I apologize. I guess things have been really busy and I have to start writing things down more. During the day I'll think of something and think "I want to post that" and when I get home and in front of the PC I say to myself "what did I want to post again?". I'm taking my daughters camera with me so hopefully I'll have some nice pics also.



Blessings

Sunday, May 04, 2008

Josh's Poem

My son Josh wrote a poem which I really enjoyed. He's 16 and, I think, is very talented. Hope you enjoy it as much as I do.

His eyes glistened in the twilight,

His sights; saturated with serene surroundings

The flowers, all white, glowed in the pre dusk lighting

and the entire setting was cascaded by an enchanting

illuminescence

The air was calm and still and permeated a comfort beyond

Tranquility

An orb of water formed on his lashes and dropped.

It’s twin plummeted after, followed by a modest stream,

down his cheek.

As it flowed, it dispelled all stress that clung to him

He passed trees that were displayed in a curious manner

between the street lamps and emanations of the unseen sunset.

Much was going on but there was no noise.

Friday, May 02, 2008

Sweeney Todd and Stuff

Below is a tune for Sweeney Todd the movie. We just saw it, excellent plot but I think too graphic for my taste. Too Bad because I think it would have won some awards if good ole tim burton would've toned it down some. Pam is doing great and we're off to the Whiskey Row Half marathon this weekend, afterwards a little romp to flagstaff. Finally back home where I'm seriously considering buying a Harley.... I leave you with "Joahanna". Hope you like it

Blessings and have a wonderful weekend

Monday, April 28, 2008

Hi There!!!


Well, I just want to thank everyone for their well wishes for my wife. She's recovery nicely and doing very well. She just passed on of her college classes and we're that much closer for her entrance into the nursing program. She's currently a LPN and wants to be an RN and then a nurse practitioner. You go girl!!! So we're celebrating a little...... We're just hanging out now listening to Maroon 5 and I figured I'd catch up and put up a posting. Allot has happen since my last post and I'm trying to figure a way of posting everything in some sort of order. Right now I just feel like writing down whatever comes to mind so please forgive me and bear with me.

Now we're listening to Savage Garden and I feel like Chillin. Did you ever hear "Truly, Madly, Deeply"? I think it is the most beautiful love song ever written. Se La Vi

Hope you're doing well.
i Leave with a smile

Blessing

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Surgery




My wife is going in for surgery tomorrow. She has a hernia that has to be repaired. Apparently this was cause by a surgery she had several years back. I'm concerned about the whole deal but this is what she wants. The last year I had worked as the technical resource for an IT project in a hospital OR. I've seen many operations and I'm fascinated by them. One of the things I wonder is how technically we've come so far but utilized such archaic practices to cure issues of the body. Don't get me wrong, I'm not knocking the great work that's done, I just see a disparity in technology and focus. I cannot wait for the day where main stream medical practices looks at the whole person in diagnosing and curing rather than just the visible symptom. Just my thoughts, I'll let ya know how everything went.



Blessings

Thursday, April 03, 2008

Feeling for Tucson


Good Morning;

Lately my wife has been getting a calling for Tucson AZ. We currently are living in Phoenix AZ. It's funny because all along we've been going to Sedona and Flagstaff which is in the northern part of AZ. I've been so wowed by Sedona that I have expressed interest in moving there someday.

I've been teasing my wife that if we move it's gonna be to Sedona. But truth be said when I settle myself and meditate, I get the feeling that Tucson is where we're supposed to be now. We visited Tucson about two weeks ago, we're planning on going back this weekend.

I'll keep ya updated


Blessings

Monday, March 31, 2008

Please be careful

I noticed lately posts like the one below

Blogger Kagahn said...

See please here

Please be careful, they're shortcuts to programs that install trojans on your PC. Pretty clever but unfortunately forces some people to be a little more paranoid.

Blessings

Sunday, March 30, 2008

A meme



Grabbed this meme from Titania's "Finding Life's Enchantments" Enjoy


1. What time did you get up this morning? 4:30 AM
2. Diamonds or pearls? Diamonds
3. Last movie you saw in the theater? Harry Potter, the last one

4. What is/are your favorite TV shows? My name is Earl, Dirty Jobs, ESPN
5. What do you usually have for breakfast? Oatmeal, coffee
6. What is your middle name? Don’t have one really, unless confirmation name counts that’s Joseph
7. What food do you dislike? Brussel Sprouts
8. What is your favorite CD at the moment? My latest mix of music.
9. What kind of car do you drive? Subaru Outback

10. Favorite sandwich? Gacaumole, with peppers on tortilla

11. What characteristics do you despise? Being demeaning

12. Favorite item of clothing? My running shoes

13. If you could go anywhere in the world for a vacation, where would you go? Everywhere

14. What color is your bathroom? Beige

15. Favorite brand of clothing? Don’t care about brands except for my running shoes which are Asics.
16. Where would you want to retire? If I were to ever retire, we talked about central park west in NYC
17. Most memorable birthday? My 35th. People at work and family made it nice

18. Favorite sport to watch? Auto Racing

19. Furthest place you are sending this to? PA
20. Who do you expect to respond? Anyone who wants

21. Person you expect to respond first? Anyone who wants
22. Favorite saying? You have the ability to do anything or be anything you want
23. When is your birthday? September
24. Are you a morning person or a night person? Morning
25. What is your shoe size? 10
26. Pets? 2 dogs
27. What did you want to be when you were little? An Airplane pilot

28. What are you today? Career wise I’m a computer guy

29. What is your favorite candy? Hershey Almond

30. Your favorite flower? Marigolds
31.What is a day on the calendar you are really looking forward to? No One in particular
32. What are you listening to right now? MY kids watching “Yo Mama on MTV”
33. What was the last thing you ate? Rice and Gacaumole
34. Do you wish on stars? Always do

35. If you were a crayon, what color would you be? I’d be a rainbow crayon

36. What is your pet peeve? Virgos have many, I think being untidy

37. Last person you spoke to on the phone? My Wife.
38. Do you like the person/people you are sending this onto? Yes
39. Favorite soft drink? Seltezer and Lemon
40. Favorite restaurant? Olive Garden

41. Hair Color? Brown, what’s left of it. :o)
42. Favorite day of the year? Any day with my family
43. What was your favorite toy as a child? My Bicycle.
44. Summer or winter? Both

45. Hugs or kisses? Both, Hugs make you feel warm and the kiss adds that nice tingly sensation.
46. Chocolate or vanilla? Vanilla
47. Do you want your blog friends to carry this on? If they feel like it.
48. When was the last time you cried? When I heard a beautiful song
49. What is under your bed? My wife’s stepper.
50. Who is the friend you've had the longest? Friend Tom .
51. What did you watch on television last night? History channel Nostradamus!
53. What are you afraid of? Seeing others in pain
54. How many keys on your key ring? 2
55. How many years at your current job? 3 months

56. Favorite day of the week? Saturday.
57. How many states have you lived in? Four: Pennsylvania, New York, New Jersey, Arizona

58. Do you make friends easily? Yes

59. How many folks will you send this to? Don’t know

Thursday, March 27, 2008

Earth Hour

This is an article I copied. Sorry about the advertisement


Downtown Phoenix going dark for Earth Hour






Eugene Scott
The Arizona Republic
Mar. 27, 2008 01:27 PM

From 8 to 9 p.m. Saturday, darkness will fall upon downtown Phoenix - at least that's the plan.

Phoenix is a flagship city in Earth Hour, an international event where millions will ban together to conserve energy by turning off their lights for an hour.

"The city's become very interested in green and sustainable processes and projects, because saving energy saves money on the bottom line, and we need to be good stewards of the public dollars," said Cynthia Seelhammer, Phoenix's deputy city manager.



Regardless of one's opinions on global warming and climate change, conserving energy makes fiscal sense and saves taxpayer money, she said.

The World Wildlife Fund, one of the world's largest environmental organizations, is hosting the event to make people more aware of their impact on the environment.

Phoenix was chosen as a leader in the effort and will turn off all of the power of its downtown city run buildings.

"It sounds easy, but its kind of sticky, when you're talking about big, tall buildings, ball parks and convention centers," said Leslie Aun, spokesperson for the World Wildlife Fund in the U.S. "There's a whole electrical system that really isn't designed to be turned on or off. So to actually pick a specific time in the day and have all of these buildings go off at the same time is quite a logistical challenge."

The first Earth Hour took place in Australia in 2007. More than 2 million people and 2,000 businesses participated by turning off their lights, she said.

"It was such a big deal that the World Wildlife Fund decided to take it to a global platform here in the U.S.," Aun said.

Given the complexity of darkening a major international city's downtown area, the event caught the attention of the world.

When city officials contacted the World Wildlife Fund, they were told that the organizers were looking for a flagship city in the Mountain Time zone. The Fund wanted a major city in each of the U.S.'s continental time zones to participate in Earth Hour and Phoenix was chosen.

The city has a genuine commitment to improving the environment, Aun said.

"We didn't want to go to a place where there was a mayor who though climate change wasn't real," she said. "Sort of our benchmark was, 'is it a city that has a skyline that will be impressive if you darken it? A community that is willing to coalesce around an issue?'"

The other flagship cities are San Francisco, Chicago and Atlanta.

"What's really been wonderful is the way this thing has taken on a life of its on. Not only are we seeing huge participation in the flagship cities. We now have 31 additional US cities to say, 'hey, we want to do it, too, in one way or another,'" Aun said.

Some of the other major cities participating include Honolulu, Charlotte, Denver, St. Louis and Miami.

But Earth Hour isn't limited to city buildings. Businesses, neighborhoods and others have chosen to participate. The city has notified residents about the event via email, newsletter, websites and the telephone message systems.

Candlelight dinners

Stoudemire's Downtown will not only turn off its lights during this peak time for restaurants, but plans to offer an candlelit, economically-friendly menu.

Waiters wearing glow sticks will serve everything from all-natural beef strip loin to an Eco'tini, featuring organic vodka, green tea and an edible orchid.

"It's for a good cause and we just wanted to participate in that," said Alison Bolstad, event coordinator for the downtown Phoenix restaurant. "If we were going to show people the importance of saving the environment, we thought we'd just add something to go along with it."

Bolstad said the response has been encouraging and that they are still accepting reservations for their Earth Hour dinner.

While officials in Australia said their energy use during Earth Hour 2007 decreased as much as 10 percent, organizers don't expect this year's event to make a major difference in climate change. Earth Hour is mainly symbolic, Aum said.

"It's a big issue that transcends race and religion and all the things that connect and divide us," she said. "We don't want Earth Hour to end at 9. We want it to continue to the next year."

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Grease & Nicoles Blog





How many of you remember Grease the movie????? Back in 1977 or was it 1978, I'm getting old, that movies was it!! Every kid knew the characters the music, etc.. Anyway I just recently came across one of the old songs so we rented the movie and had a family movie night. The reception from the gang was warm but my wife and sat there loving it!! We had fun and the kids had fun making fun of us as we sang along to the songs.


My lovely Nicole has started her own blog page. So if you can stop by and say hi. I have her link right under the picture in the upper right "taking it a it is". I like it!!!





Blessings

Friday, March 07, 2008

Happy Birthday Pablo


I want to wish my brother a happy birthday. He and I haven't talked for over 5 years. I don't think he's mad at me. His wife doesn't like me and in the past I haven't said nice things about her. I think she thinks I'm going to try to separate them. I'm not fond of her but I would never do that. Anyway Pablo is pretty much the opposite of me. I'm the older controlling loud mouth obnoxious brother (or I was at one point). He's the quiet, non confrontational, brother. I think he made more friends than I but I don't blame them. It was easy being Pablo's friend. We grew up together in the orphanage and group homes and no one knows me like he does.

Anyway I love him and I miss him and I hope he is doing well and enjoying his birthday.


Blessings

Tuesday, March 04, 2008

Searching for sweetness

Here's a pic Nicole took at a Japanese Festival we attended a couple of weeks ago. Yes I'm her dad and I'm showing off my baby's work. I am soooo proud of her. This transparent background does not do the pic justice.


Blessings

Monday, March 03, 2008

Ekhart Tolle A New Earth

I Just bought the book, I'll let you know what I think



Sunday, March 02, 2008

My Painting




Thank you Titania for the cool link


http://www.bored.com/createpaintings/

Friday, February 22, 2008

Got Milk??????




I'm changing my habits. As a part of my change ans reinventing myself, I've become a vegetarian. Pam has gone on a diet but has decided not to go the vegetarian route. One thing we have done is eliminate dairy products from our diet (I looooove Ice Cream). Mind you we're doing this slowly so we still sneak in a pizza from time to time. One of things we did was stop buying milk and soon butter.

Here's my dilemma. Our kids still like milk and butter. Even though Pam and I have decided to change our diet should we force this on our kids. Part of me says yes it's better for their health and part of me says that I shouldn't go pushing my views on them. They're 16, 13 and 12 and I know some would say (as I have said to them) as long as your under our roof you follow our rules but I have a really hard time believing in that with this issue.

I do believe it would be healthier for them to eliminate dairy. I don't want them to wait until they're in their late 30's or 40's to make the same discoveries I made. AT the same time I want to make sure they have the freedom and confidence to make their own decisions. For now there's milk and butter in the house. We're working together to make a joint family decision. I guess more important than anything it's important for all of us to work together towards compromise.




Blessings